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Setting Goals and Achieving Them – STEP 1

Today’s post is about goal setting, after recently being made redundant I have just come to the realisation how important is this is.  I am the type of person that procrastinates about these sorts of things.   I have an idea of what I want to do but have never clearly defined my goals and how to go about achieving them, it’s always something I said I would do once I have completed a certain task or hit a milestone birthday etc, basically putting it off!   So given my current circumstances there has never been a better time.

Setting goals is about long term vision and short term motivation.  I am working out how to define these according to the steps outlined on mindtools.com

STEP 1 – Life Time Goals

Create the bigger picture and identify your overall lifetime goals and then break them into smaller targets that can be scaled down from years to year, month, week and day.  So after you have set out your plan you can get started right away.  Firstly pick the categories that are most important to you and brainstorm your over all lifetime goal in this area.  Go wild! Remember the sky is the limit, you don’t have a boss or corporation dictating how much your time is worth, so don’t be put off with what you have now as many have turned rags into riches so why can’t we?! Below is a list of headings to help get started.

Career: What is your dream job?

Finances: How much money would make you happy?

Physical: How fit do you want to be?  How to you want to improve your health over all?

Family: Do you want to me married, have children or be closer to your loved ones?

Attitude: What is your desired outlook on life? Do you want to inspire and/or be a leader?

Artistic: What are the creative outlets you would like to master?

Pleasure: What things in your life could you be doing to get more enjoyment out of life?

Public Service: How do you want to contribute to you community?


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Remember, Remember the 5th of November

What an amazing start to a new year with my CocoFella! It was a 1st year anniversary yesterday and he surprised me to a lavish treat of dinner at Galvin at Windows which is the Hilton Park Lanes top restaurant.  Literally top too, it’s on the 28th floor!  The bar is fabulous, its decor is art deco but for me it has and 80’s glamour about it. Crystal Carrington and Alexis Colby from TV’s Dynasty would certainly not look out of place here.  It was fireworks night last night and with a 360 view of London through the floor to ceiling windows, it was a spectacular sight watching all the sparkly explosions across the city.

The restaurant is equally sumptuous and we enjoyed a cocktail, amazing Primitivo wine and the delicious three course meal.  I had cured salmon, Dorset crab, avocado purée & orange, followed by veal with sweetbread.  Sweetbread is the neck gland of the veal and after I got over that fact, it was delicious, almost mousse like.  The meat was tender and succulent and the rich jus complemented it perfectly. Fella had terrine of foie gras, kumquat purée, spiced salt & vanilla brioche and grouse with pearl barley for main course.  Going by the bites I stole from his plate both his starter and main were excellent choices.   I am definitely going to make pearl barley in place of rice with meat dishes, it was delicious. The portions were on the small side (this is haute cuisine darlin’ 🙂 ) but as all the flavours were so rich and delicious  we were full after main course, but as it was included in the price I had to squeeze in dessert!


Mascarpone parfait, the perfect end to a perfect meal, light and creamy with a hit of coffee, it was like 5 star tiramisu.  I am glad I found enough room.  Not only was the food five star but the service was too. We had various staff from sommeliers to servers, all who were lovely and made sure we didn’t want for anything. Our waiter asked us what we were celebrating waiter found out it was our anniversary he surprised us with a pistachio torte which ‘Congratulations’ written in chocolate.

What I loved the most is Galvin was its unpretentiousness, we felt relaxed and had fun. Galvin was a fabulous place to celebrate our first year together.  I can’t wait to find out what exciting things our second year will bring.  Thank you CocoFella, for such a special night :*


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Coconut Oil Fact 3: Supports Immunity

ImageCoconut oil is mix of healthy fats which contain antifungal, antibacterial and antiviral properties. Lauric, caprylic and capric acids are all proven to boost the immune system with Lauric acid having the highest concentration of MCFA (which stands for Medium Chain Fatty Acid).

The body turns this fat into monolaurin, which years of research has shown to contain germ-killing properties, monolaurin is also a component of breast milk. This is why breast feeding is so important in a baby’s first few months, as it’s essential nutrients boosts their immunity.

Thanks to the MCFA’s in coconut oil by spreading this on your morning toast instead of butter, you are helping to fight off viruses such as influzena, herpes and candida.


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Gratitude Rocks!

ImageBeing thankful for everything you have attracts more good things to come into your life.   Hard up on cash?  Being thankful for having even just a pound in your pocket will eventually bring you fortune.  If you are constantly thankful for any money you do have and any you receive, more will eventually come your way.  Hate your job?  Being grateful for simply having a job when so many others don’t will put you in positive mind set and offer you a solution on finding something you love to do.  Having relationship troubles? Rather than focusing on the on what is getting you down focus on the positive and eventually your worries will fade away.

 

Negative thoughts attract negative circumstances.  Like attracts like, so the more you put yourself in a positive and grateful state of mind the more you will attract positivity and fortune in your life.  I am not saying it’s easy, but eventually it will become a habit.  Living a life of negativity and hatred is no fun, so what have you got to lose? 

 

It’s called the Law of Attraction.  Look it up, it will change your life 🙂


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Praise Bee – Honey, by CocoFella

If you fancy a food buzz, consider honey. Pun intended.

For many, honey is simply a sticky spread for their toast in the morning; and rightly so. Yet it has so many other uses and nutritious properties that it can and should be considered for many more applications from breakfast time to the moment you go to bed.

First let’s have a look at what honey is.

It is a natural gift from our friends, the bees, whose entire life is focused around the hive, the queen bee and making honey. If there are any Gods, it would indeed be their true elixir.

Such was its importance in the ethereal side of life, according to an article in CNC World, in ancient Georgia, “honey was packed for people’s journeys into the afterlife”.  Also, Ancient Egyptian and Middle Eastern peoples used honey for embalming the dead. The fertility god of Egypt, Min, was offered honey.

Gods aside, the magical honey bees bumble around flower beds, apparently with no plan;

but they do have a plan, a very well rehearsed one, and they can be seen in the warmer months busily homing in on various flowers and plants and thorny gorse, seeking out and collecting nectar, to ingest and carry back to the hive, to provide them with enough food in the winter for them to continue to build a well constructed honey-comb that forms their large, shared house with thousands of hexagonal chambers.

I didn’t want to bring this up but if you really want to know, it is a sugary, regurgitated meal. Pun intended. It is a bit like finding out and coming to terms with the fact that your favourite little barbeque savoury is made from the nether regions of swine; or a bit like discovering that the story of the birds and the bees actually applies to your own parents.

We humans collect this honey from bees, on who we depend heavily for pollinating our flora, and we take the honey-combs from the bees, who sort of let us have it but unwillingly. How would you like it if someone popped in to your homestead on a regular basis and stole the contents of your fridge and cupboard? Their sting hurts. But we build them a protected hive, charge no rent but in return we get some of their bounty.

But such is the goodness bound up in their golden manufacture that we humans are more than quite prepared to take that risk.

And I’m now going to tell you why.

Honey is a monosaccharide, and is largely fructose and glucose. But it is a sugar that has gone through a completely natural process. So it makes for a very convenient sweetener which when exposed to heat adds a delicious caramel flavour. You can use it to sweeten your more earthy vegetables, take the bitterness away from some beverages and also enhance the fatty flavour of your Sunday pork, chicken or even lamb roast. The runny stuff is ideal for this purpose. There are many distinct flavours, depending on where the bees collect their nectar, from floral, to heavier heather-types, woodland accents, some incredibly sour and others equally sweet, so pick wisely for your own palate.

The remaining constituent parts comprise zinc and vitamin C, a host of B vitamins, protein, iron, potassium, magnesium and of further note calcium. They are all in trace quantities but together they appear to provide the human throat with a layer of sticky protection to help fortify us mortals against throat infections. Zinc and vitamin c are well known and medically proven for their ability to help boost our natural defenses. But the small quantities in honey, perhaps when combined with the sugars and other vitamins and minerals are sufficient to give us a boost. There are many varieties of honey, so find out which one you find tastes best for you, a medicine that tastes good? That HAS to be a winner for parents when administering their poorly child. Manuka honey is reported to be best at that according to Holland and Barrett, but check the flavour first before you buy it, it is for many an acquired taste, as is the price.

Owing to the blend of sugars and about 8 acids, honey has also been dubbed nature’s natural expectorant. If you develop a cloggy cough in the winter, a couple spoonfuls of honey morning noon and night will help you ‘bring up’ the phlegm and mucus. You’ll be better in two shakes of a bees behind.

Furthermore, it is also a recommended herbal and homeopathic remedy to reverse the irritating effects of hay-fever. You don’t see bees sneeze, do ya?!

What is more, and somewhat surprisingly, if applied to a mild dermatological graze, it can function as a topological ‘ointment’ of sorts. It is the hydro peroxide release that acts a mild antiseptic.

The antioxidants in honey also help to reduce the free radicals in our stomach, and even repair stomach ulcers, even ones caused by diabetes. People with diabetes should check the glycemic index of honey because if the ulcer is diabetes related, the disease may well be exacerbated by consuming honey on that basis. So, check with your doc first.

But ultimately, the health benefits aside, the best use of honey is just to make your cooking taste so sticky-finger-licking good.

Honey is so clever that it can attract moisture and prevent dehydration, and it also caramelises so beautifully that a good joint of meat will come out of the oven for the better for having been dowsed in honey to your heart’s content.

So go on, content yourself, have a spoonful of the stuff. And see if you can do it without making a mess.

P.S. Please remember to thank the bees for their incredible gift.


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To Greenwich and Beyond!

I had a fantastic Saturday day out with my fella, my brother and my other brother and his girlfriend who were visiting from Edinburgh.  We started the day off with and early lunch/brunch as the Gypsy Moth pub in Greenwich. We sat outside as it was such a gorgeous day, I had a lovely halloumi and couscous salad and my boyfriend had a burger, the food was pretty good but the best bit was the view had a front row seat in front of the Cutty Sark.   The Cutty Sark is a Scottish Tea clipper, one of the last to be built in 1869. Great Scottish craftsmanship of course! It’s beautiful but it was restored recently as it nearly burnt to the ground in 2007 when, I believe, someone flicked a ciggy but and the ship caught alight :(. There is now glass covering around the bows of the ship, which does ruin its beauty a bit, but a least its safe now from vandals.

Cutty Cark & Old Naval College

After lunch we had a wander round Greenwich, which is a great place to kill a few hours as it’s so pretty with so much to do.  It feels like I am on holiday when I visit Greenwich, it’s different to the rest of London, an old town but chilled out, with gorgeous Victorian and Georgian architecture. We started off with a stroll alongside the Thames, walked through the grounds of the Old Naval College and had a look inside the chapel and its stunning ceiling murals. We then went to my favourite place, Greenwich Market. It’s a bustling market with craft and food stalls from around the world. It’s covered too, so good on a rainy day.

Greenwich Market and Cheese Stall

After Greenwich, we set sail on the commuter clipper. A great way to get to the city center, and a single ticket only costs £6 (£5.40 if you use you oyster card) We sailed past the all the Docklands skyscrapers and fancy riverside apartments (not close enough to snoop in the windows though! :)) We sailed under Tower Bridge which was amazing, and in just under 30 mins we disembarked at Embankment and crossed the Hungerford footbridge to Southbank taking in cracking views of Big Ben and The London Eye. I love looking at the London Eye but my vertigo prevents me going on it. I get the heeby geebies just walking under it!

View from Hungerford Foot Bridge

Southbank is great place to spend an afternoon of art and culture as the Tate Modern, The B.F.I (British Film Institute)and Globe Theater are all there. We headed straight to a cool roof top beer garden though!

After that we wandered further along and crossed Westminster Bridge to get a close up of Parliament and Big Be. We strolled along Birdcage Walk which is a beautiful avenue with St James Park by your left hand side.  It reminds me a bit ofthe Tuileries in Paris 🙂 Then on to Buckingham Palace, my bro’s girlfriend had never seen the Palace despite visiting London several times.  I love Buckingham Palace, I am Scottish so not that patriotic about the Union jack or the Royals in general but I do get a bit nostalgic when I see Buckingham Palace.  I think the new generation of Royals great though. Especially Harry, he knows how to have a good time!

Buckingham Palace

We crossed Green Park and headed towards Piccadilly past the Ritz, which is still on my list of places to go.  I want to live it up at the Ritz cocktail bar if only for a night :), the 5 star hotel is amazing from the outside and I am sure it doesn’t disappoint on the inside.

After all the walking we were getting tired and weary, so time for some dinner and we headed to China town.   China Town is in between Soho and Leicester Square, and there is always a buzz about it.  More so than any other China Town I have been to apart from Sydney.   We headed to a place call Chuen Cheng Ku on Wardour Street which has great reviews for its Dim Sum. I am not a great fan of Dim Sum as I’m not so keen on the texture of the steamed dumplings but these were good ( I ate mainly the fried ones :)) We ended and great day with a fab Chinese feast, and headed home earlier than I expected. Our whistle stop tour of London had clearly worn us out!

China Town & Chicken Buns


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Recipe: Coconut Almond and Raisin Muffins

These are sweet, tasty treats for breakfast or just for when you fancy! They are gluten free and contain no refined sugar, best of all they quick and easy.

Ingredients

Makes 9 cupcakes or 6 muffins.

Wet: 2 tbsp Virgin Coconut Oil (melted) 2 tbsp coconut milk, 3 eggs, 3 tbsp honey, ¼ tsp vanilla extract.

Dry: 40 g sifted Coconut Flour, ¼ teaspoon salt, ¼ teaspoon baking powder, 100g  raisins, 100g cup slivered almonds

Method

Get organised and get all your equipment (mixer, bowl, spatula, measuring spoons,  scales, muffin tin and cases) and ingredients sorted. Pop the oven on at 205 Degree C.

Step 1: Chuck eggs, coconut oil, coconut milk, honey, salt and vanilla extract in your mixing bowl.

Step 2: Whip ’em up.

Step 3  & 4: Mix coconut flour with baking powder and sift, whip, sift, whip into your wet ingredients and make sure you get rid of any nasty lumps.

Step 5: Fold in raisins and slivered almonds.

Step 6: Spoon batter into greased muffin cups.

Step 7: Pop into the oven for 15/17 mins, until they are turn golden on top.

Enjoy!

Learnings: This is the first time I have used coconut flour to bake, the actual flour smells delicious! The cupcakes I made were dense and moist but they didn’t rise much so fill the cases to how big you want them to be.  I had mine in the oven for 17 mins but probably could have taken them out a minute before, larger ones may need more time so keep an eye on them.

I’ll definitely do this again! I had mine spread with coconut oil – of course 🙂


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Review: Buenos Aires Café, Blackheath London

My brother and his girlfriend arrived for a visit this weekend and we headed up to Blackheath to meet my other brother for an Argentinian meat feast at Buenos Aires Café on 17 Royal Parade. The restaurant is in a charming period building, I love Blackheath as it has a real ‘villagey’ feel about it. The restaurant is small but has huge windows and all the solid wooden tables are close together which gives it it’s café character, but you are not so close to the other diners that you can hear what they are saying!  The restaurant has a real warm and inviting ambiance which was particularly welcome as it was a wet and chilly night on Friday.  The walls are covered with some great paparazzi shots of stars like Sean Connery but we couldn’t work out if it was a wall of fame of the celebs that had eaten there before. Whether they had or not, it was impressive none the less!

Ok, I have set the scene now so on to the feast! We ordered a few starters to share, Empanadas which are an Argentinian favourite, not too dissimilar to a Cornish pasty, but these are smaller and the pastry was light, thin and slightly crisp.   We had spinach and onion and beef (Argentinian of course!) I am half Portuguese and we have something similar but dare I say it, these are the best Empanadas I have ever had! They were small but delicious and a prefect appetiser for one. We also ordered Provoleta, which it a round of grilled cheese.  It was amazing! You know when you make a grilled cheese sandwich and the cheese that oozes out the side is crispy and chewy? Well, Provolata is just like that so if you love that, then this is a must try.

On to main event,  and of course steak for us was the only option. (If you didn’t fancy steak thanks to Argentina’s Italian influence, pizza and pasta were also on the menu.)  The ranges of steaks were impressive and what you would expect from an Argentinian restaurant, fillet, rib eye, sirloin and rump ranging from 200g to 400g from £20 – £30 depending on the cut and weight.   My brother and I chose the meat platter, which was 750g of prime meat giving you a taste of all the cuts. For £22.50 per person we thought this was really well priced. We opted for rare and the steaks arrived perfectly done. The waitress did point out that the rib eye would come on the less rare side as that cut was more fatty and it was best served this way, and she was right,  although after a bit of fillet, sirloin and rump I couldn’t manage any rib eye but my brother enjoyed it!  The steaks come with fried eggs if you fancy, but if you want extra sides you have to order these separately. We order chips, which were nice, and crispy, mixed roasted vegetables, and a national dish made with sweet corn that I forget the name of, but was a great accompaniment to steak as it was sauce like and creamy.  All sides were great but I have to comment on the stingy portions.  We all agreed that we can’t understand why restaurants don’t go to town on the sides.  They are usually the cheapest items to cook up so by being generous its an inexpensive way to impress your diners so they come back again 😦

Before going onto dessert I can’t believe I forgot to mention the wine!  We ordered this before anything else, Paula Malbec, I love Argentinian Malbec and this didn’t disappoint.  I really want to go on a wine course, as I wish I could describe the wine like a connoisseur, but the menu said ‘deep clean violet colour combines raspberry, cassis, floral and spicy notes’.  Well, for a house red that sounds impressive and it was tasty, and a fantastic accompaniment to the fine steak.  For those who are more familiar with the lingo you will not be disappointed with the wine list.

Ok, now on to the final furlong, dessert! I couldn’t manage a whole dessert so I had a macchiato and an Alfajor, which is dulce de leche sandwiched between two large cinnamon biscuits and covered in dark chocolate.  Sweet and spice, and looks like a posh wagon wheel according to my brother!  Duche de leche is a caramel like sauce made from condensed milk and obviously popular in Argentina as almost all the desserts came with dollop or two.  It came with my brothers vanilla cheesecake and we couldn’t help comment is looked like dogs poo, but don’t let that put you off as it’s gorgeous stuff :).  We did have more grown up chat that that too, honest!

My boyfriend says that Buenos Aires Café is one of the best restaurants in Blackheath and if there is any better,  they must be pretty darn good. The restaurant was unpretentious, great service and fab atmosphere.  We were there to celebrate my brother and his girlfriend expecting their first baby (very excited as I am about to be a Auntie for this first time!) My other brother treated us so I didn’t actually see the bill, but I am sure it wasn’t cheap, but then no decent steak place is! Make sure you get a table upstairs as they do have seating in the basement but it’s not as nice. If you were a large party of ten or more then basement would be great, you would pretty much take it over and you are right next to the bar!  I googled some Argentinian slang and found the word bárbaro, which describes Buenos Aires Café perfectly – great, wonderful, cool.